你是第 個訪客
You are the th visitor
「同理心」畫展‧Art of Empathy
時鐘在走，那位女士在嘆息
它的世界是悲傷的。她在搖頭。
感到哀傷和困惑，焦慮和悲傷
她感到內疚和疼痛
也許，她需要的是溫柔的關懷
便能夠將她從絕望中拯救出來。 時鐘在走，那位女士在嘆息
它的世界是悲傷的。她在搖頭。
感到哀傷和困惑，焦慮和悲傷
她感到內疚和疼痛
也許，她需要的是溫柔的關懷
便能夠將她從絕望中拯救出來。
The clock was ticking, the Lady sighed
Her world was grey. She shook her head
Feeling distressed and confused, anxious and sad
She had a sense of guilt and ongoing pain
Perhaps all she needed was a tender touch
That could rescue her from the world of helplessness.
當我留意每一幅畫的細節，我的確發現人們在習慣，偏好，甚至思維方式均有諸多不同。這個發現能適用於與病人的相處中。例如，由於對信息不同的理解，不同的人對相同的句子會有不一樣的反應。因此，在基層醫療中，了解病人的看法，擔憂和期望是非常重要的。你永遠都不知道病人對你有什麼期待。在上述與病人的相處中，我學到了如何更理解他們，亦意識到每個人的思維方式是不同的。經過參與此次工作坊，我進一步整合了這些看法。
At first when I started interviewing her, I thought of psychosomatic pain. I tried to explore the underlying cause and asked further whether she had stress in life or work, but I could not identify a cause until she mentioned to me the second time that her son died of hemophilia and that she must have the condition. If I interpret this sentence just based on wordings alone, I would have missed the sense of guilt she was hiding deep inside her heart. She then kept talking about herself having inherited the condition to her son and caused her son’s death.